Helping you become stronger than your mind.

  • Are you feeling trapped and controlled by your mental health?
  • Are you sick of just existing?
  • Do you worry how your mental health will affect your children and family?
  • Are your dreams and intrusive thoughts scaring the hell out of you right now?

I got you. You are not alone mama, 1 in 5 UK mamas struggle with their mental health at one point or another. Weather your child is 2 weeks or 22 years being a mama is tough and being a mama with a mental illness can feel impossible to live with.  I help mamas who are struggling with their mental health to gain control of their moods emotions. You will finally be able to start living a life of a confident mama who is proud of who she is and where she is going. Because you deserve to stop believing everything your mind is telling you and to stop being afraid of your intrusive thoughts. Imagine how it will feel to finally be in control of your mind again?

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Hi there, I’m 


I am real talking and honest and have a no nonsense approach. But I also have a wicked sense of humour and make light of most situations and find the funny side. I will push you and make you dig deep; to reveal your true self.  

I know that as a mama, we can worry about the impact our mental health and our moods, can have on our families. I am here to show you that you can be the one in control of your mental health! 

I am a mental health practitioner. I combine many of my qualifications to offer you a unique approach to your mental health.

My main expertise is in mood control. As someone who has borderline (emotionally unstable) personality disorder. I have mastered the art of not letting my ever changing moods be in control of me. I am passionate about sharing my tools and strategies with mamas who want to gain more control of their moods and emotions. 

What people say about me

It sounds crazy, but I am finally seeing glimmers of the real me. I have done things I would never have had the confidence to do before. I am also starting to sleep better. Thanks to Nicola and the tools she gives me, I am ready to fight this and I am now becoming stronger than my mind.


Nicola, Omg you have just give me so much hope and feeling of opportunity in my future!!!


I feel more in control this group is so amazing and supportive.








How I support you

How I support you is unique and holistic. Mainly because I haven’t just read the books and passed the exams, I actually have mental illnesses myself, so I literally practise what I preach and it works not just for me but with my clients too. 

You will find me hanging out over on Instagram where I keep things real and raw and share tips to help other mamas just like you too. 

But my main hub and where I work directly with my mamas is in the Stronger Than Your Mind Academy. I call my academy members my butterflies, because I take you from a scared unconfident caterpillar, who feels so trapped in the world. Stuck travelling small and at ground level, only able to look on in awe at those flying high. Until you take the time to dig deep, cocoon yourself and give yourself the time and space you need to grow. It is then that you blossom into the most beautiful butterfly you have always been destined to be. You can find out more about the academy by clicking here

I am passionate about helping mamas discover how important exercise is and can be for our mental health. It is my daily therapy and coping mechanism, I would be lost without it and now so many of my clients agree and rely on it too. Don’t worry, I know it feels impossible and I know motivation is a real issue. But I have got you,  get your hands on a FREE workbook below where I teach you not only why but how to use exercise as your biggest weapon against your demons within. 

Do you need to switch off, but don’t know how?


So many people ask me how they can get a break, a break from their own mind

I remember being so scared that I would lose everything soon if I didn’t find a way to shut up the demons in my mind.

Well, I found a way and in this FREE workbook I show you exactly what it is and how to get the motivation to do it too. Just click the image to get you FREE workbook now.  

Maternal Mental Health

As a mama of 4 myself, I had post natal mental health problems with 3 of my children. I am dedicated at helping mamas know that having mental health problems does not make you a bad mama. I’m equally passionate about providing support and helpful strategies to mamas feeling overwhelmed by their mental health. 

Realise that you are not alone

Click here to find information and support on maternal mental health. Plus read the stories of mums with mental health.  See how they are still amazing mummies with amazing children. Just like you can and will be too. 

What my clients say

I came across Nicola on Facebook when I saw her post and answered ‘yes’ to so many questions. For both my mental and physical health – I knew I had to explore her futher. I am gald I did. Nicola is amazing, a true survivor and a warrior. She is supportive and inspiring but not afraid to kick butt when the sitation demands it. The other group members are wonderful; there is no judgment, it’s a safe place to be, and yes, it can be a funny place too. Mental and physical health don’t have to be 100% serious, as I’ve discovered. Thanks to her incredibly useful and honest online support guides, I know I can turn to Nicola or her virtual self for help 24/7. Stronger Than Your Mind is unique and that’s a good thing. It’s not sterlie, clinical, or ‘fluffy bunny’. It’s honest, it’s open, it’s warm and friendly. It’s serious, it’s funny, it’s light, and sometimes you’ll get a no-nonsense toe up your bottom if that’s what you need. If you think all support groups are the same, think again.

Ellie Hendren

Nicola has created workshops to help with numerous different issues/areas of concern and by working through them you are able to see things from a different perspective. I’m always going back through my worksheets to remind myself of how I felt when I worked through the workshops and it really helps. Nicola is so knowledgeable and makes you feel at ease. She really is the expert as she has experienced and overcome her own challenges in life.


I have suffered mental health for years and I thought I was a lost cause. Nothing I tried worked and I had pretty much given up. Nicola’s academy and her help has been amazing. For once I actually have hope I can move forward and it’s the first thing that has actually made a positive difference for me. I made the best choice when I joined Nicola’s academy. I am so thankful for everything this academy and Nicola has done for me. 

Jess Sibthorp


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